Thursday, August 29, 2013

Beach Bums

It was supposed to rain all weekend so it came as quite a surprise today when Lauren woke us up last Sunday way too early and we saw the sun.  I was able to fall back on my original weekend fun plan of driving to the Belgian coast.
I remember asking my seat-mate on my first flight to Belgium about the country's beaches.  He smirked and acknowledged that although Belgium did have a coastline, it wasn't worth my time to visit.  But the day I sat for 5 hours on the highway heading north from Brussels going nowhere I stared at the sign pointing to Oostende, a coastal town, and wondered exactly what it must look like - at that point the end of the highway was like a bright light at the end of a long dark tunnel (see Summer Vacations post).
So I turned to the trusty internet for some Google images and learned that the 40 miles of oceanfront included some varying towns and cities.  Oostende, my original search, looked like your typical European, cement high-rise beach front with lots of white people crowding the sand.  On the other side, Knokke Heist, was supposed to be the West Palm Beach town of Belgium.  Somewhere in the middle had to be surf, sand, ice cream and kids riding bicycles and building sandcastles.
Turns out that place was called De Haan and it was even much better than we expected.  One main street with brightly painted, wooden buildings housing stores (open on Sundays!), snack shops and bike rentals.  We parked easily for free right by the beach and spent a few hours watching our kids run around with all the blond Belgian and Dutch kids wearing sweatshirts to protect from the wind on the expansive sandy field.  The tide was far out and small pools of water warmed in the bright sun.  The kids had a blast playing in the sand and collecting shells.  We took turns closing our eyes, lying in the sun in a perfectly comfortable 72 degrees and enjoying this last glimpse of a Belgian summer.
Did I mention this place was only one hour from Brussels?!  We'll be back when the sun returns next year!


Thursday, August 22, 2013

Belgian Immersion

I've had the kids alone with me all day all week.  Luckily Jesse's been working from home a bit which helps a lot.  We've picked a new Brussels destination every morning and relaxed at home, sometimes in the pool, each afternoon.  I've been cooking meals and the kids are playing with their toys, very normal.
Today I signed Cole up for a sports day camp for the last week of summer.  I am so proud of him for wanting to try a completely local French-speaking camp.  He knows one counselor speaks English but he's not even that concerned, saying they all understand me a little and I can learn.
The girls and I take him every morning and then run errands or just go to Parc Tenbosch near our apartment.  We stop and buy a baguette each day and then the girls play/fight until naptime.  We've been stopping at the Renier Chalon playground every afternoon as Cole & Lauren scoot back from camp.  They've played hard but everyone's ready for school to start next week.
First day of camp
Parc Tenbosch
Renier Chalon
Checking out the BEPS playground
Waiting for the bus



Summer Vacations

We've been in Europe over a month now.  Our international shipment has arrived and is unpacked.  We live in a furnished apartment complete with toys from home and Miele-acceptable cookware (had to buy that all new at Ikea since nothing from home worked).  I've figured out that groceries do cost more than in the US, but if you plan ahead and shop at bigger stores, its not that bad. Everyone still loves the bread.
Lara came to visit.  Tia Henteleff (Cole's teacher from Concord Hill) and her family stayed at our home while they visited Brussels, Mom was here for 3 weeks and Dad came for the last week and a half.
With my parents, we drove to Normandy, France and back again.  Lessons learned: small kids need a bigger rental house, outdoor space, and toys.   French people do not like kids in restaurants.  Caroline did not like restaurants.  Eating out was not pleasant but the scenery was beautiful.  I saw my white cliffs and rocky beaches, the kids played in the patches of sand exposed by the tide, we visited Omaha Beach and the American Cemetery and ran through the rain drops at Ponte du Hoc.  We stayed in St. Valery-en-Caux, visited Veules-les-Roses, Etretat, Rouen (Joan of Arc) and a handful of tiny seaside villages that served ice cream.
Jesse left France and went to the US for work, my parents stayed for a few days after France to explore Bruges and Brussels before returning to the US and I had the kids on my own for a few days so I took them to Ghent, which was, while rainy, a lot of fun.  
When Jesse's return flight was derailed I packed up the car, the kids and drove to London to try to keep our family vacation on track.  This should have taken about 5 hours, but due to some unforeseen, unexplained traffic nightmare, it took 9 hours to reach the French departure point for the Eurotunnel Train to England.  The kids were amazing troopers, given their lack of comprehension of why we were in a car for so long going nowhere fast.  Jesse finally made it to London and met us at our hotel and we prepared to see our friends for the first time in over a month in Scotland.
Tyson, Renee, Helena & Thatcher Redpath all flew to Europe for our Scottish adventure and we met them in a tiny village in Perthshire called Aberfeldy.  We found a pub and enjoyed a loud, fun evening.  Shocking difference from Normandy - the Scots loved our children!  A welcome surprise which totally set the tone for a fantastic week scouring the Highlands and Lowlands.
We stayed in a beautiful valley in the town of Kenmore at a resort called the Mains of Taymouth, by Loch Tay.  Every other day we drove someplace different.  First was Loch Ness by Inverness.  Then St. Andrews, which was so wonderful we went back again before we drove home.  Our last road trip within Scotland was Edinburgh which was majestic with its hilltop castle, but the best part was always cresting the peak into the valley and seeing the midsummer's light reflecting on Loch Tay.  We were blessed with great friends, great weather and safe traveling.
The Redpaths flew on to Paris and Jesse and I drove the kids back home, by way of Stratford-upon-Avon and Stonehenge.  The former a worthwhile literary diversion, the latter an impressive pile of rocks in a field.  The Eurotunnel worked perfectly in reverse and we both sighed with relief upon driving on the right side of the road again.
It felt great to be "home".
The Atomium, Brussels
St. Valery-en-Caux, France

St. Valery-en-Caux, France

Brussels Park
Loch Tay, Scotland

Aberfeldy Playground, Scotland

Wednesday, July 24, 2013

First Day New Home

We spent our first night at the apartment.  Mom, the kids and I spent a beautiful, warm evening at the local playground.  A huge sandbox filled with climbing equipment, the kids relaxed and enjoyed being kids in their new neighborhood.  I made a big grocery trip and lugged all my miniature packages of food back to my pristine white kitchen in an attempt to cook dinner in our new home.
We have Internet but no TV which is okay since the internet helps a lot when I could not figure out why my Miele cooktop was flashing some sort of error message and my instruction manuals in French and Dutch were not helpful.  At least I could turn to Google.  The culprit was my cheap, temporary aluminum pan.  It was deemed unsuitable by my cooktop.  Wait until my cooktop sees my cooking.  Dinner would have to wait another day.  Bread with peanut butter was on the menu and I did not hear any complaints.
I packed our comforters in our shipment and although it was over 90 degrees during the day and no one has air conditioning in Brussels, including us, I thought we would be fine overnight without covers.  However, when the temperature shifts over 30 degrees overnight, you wake up freezing.  Temporary blankets were added to the running shopping list.
My dad landed this morning and I went to pick him up at the airport with Caroline.  Our first stop on the way home was Ikea - our 3rd visit already.  We bought suitable pans for Miele, blankets and another 50 things you realize you need from Ikea.  Then we finally returned to the apartment to an excited welcoming committee.
After another extraordinarily priced grocery trip, I took the kids swimming in our building's pool for the first time.  It is really pretty but I need to figure out the heater.  Cole swam the length of the pool on his own and Lauren went all over with her floaties.  It is going to be a really fun play space.
My dad and Jesse reworked the sofa to accommodate for the TV/modem installation location on the opposite side of the room and put together Caroline's dresser and I successfully cooked our first meal in our new home - pasta with pesto, greens, tomatoes, mozzarella and chicken.  With the cost of food here, I am much more sensitive to waste but the kids are doing really well trying the foods that are "the same but different," as Cole says.  Everyone loves the bread.




Sunday, July 21, 2013

Furniture Assembly

We spent five hours at Ikea yesterday.  Today that had to be assembled. 
We started the morning by exploring the festival surrounding the King's abdication/Crown Prince swearing in ceremony in the Royal Gardens.  The kids went on a moon bounce and there was a marching band so in all a lively scene.  
Rest of the day at the apartment organizing then exploring local neighborhood.
Caroline turned 17 months old today!

Saturday, July 20, 2013

Belgian Birthday

Today was my 35th birthday.  I told the kids I was their ages side-by-side (3&5).  They didn't quite get it.
We had a beautiful evening in the grand Place last night.  The kids ran in circles over the cobblestones, the adults had cold beers, the temperature was in the low 70s.
We're staying in a hotel in the Center while we organize the apartment in the Chatelain.  This morning the housekeeper woke us up from a dead sleep in our pitch black room.  It was 10:45am.  
Everyone got up and we ate the most delicious birthday breakfast at noon.  Crepes, Belgian waffles, runny eggs over easy, cafe au lait, no high chairs and no kids cups (luckily we remembered to bring one for Caroline).  
Then we spent the afternoon at Ikea.  Until 6pm.  They offer convenient taxi service of your purchases to your home as you depart so after meeting the delivery van at the apartment, we returned to the Center for a birthday dinner, complete with a delicious passion fruit birthday torte.
Mom asked if I ever could've imagined celebrating my birthday on my first day living in Europe with my family.  Quite a great start to our adventure!

On our way!

Two Suburbans from PA to Newark Airport, 22 pieces of checked luggage, 12 carry ons plus 2 carseats, 3 kids, my mom, Jesse & I.  We are a traveling light sort of crew.  When Jesse & I take a week's vacation, we can do it fashionably with one carry on and one personal item. I do not recommend moving to Europe with all your stuff.  Right now I think all my stuff is really heavy.
So we flew over the ocean - even over the sharks said Cole - with no hitches.  The kids slept, the plane landed and now I sit in the Brussels airport waiting as three carseats are installed for three kids in our temporary minivan.  I've never driven a minivan, but I am so great full that they exist here too, especially when you account for all our stuff.
The kids are so excited!  Cole said Belgium looks just like our land, except more colorful.  Lauren's so happy to finally get to Brussels and if Cole's excited, then she is too.  Caroline is probably just happy to get out of her carseat, at some point.
Cole is definitely up to the task of being my little man.  He tried and succeeded in grabbing several of our suitcases off the conveyer when they arrived.  He's listening for French over the loudspeaker and a bit confused by the Dutch.  
Lauren said we should just go home and take a little rest.  I have to say she has the right idea!  However movers are coming at 1.  No rest for the weary.  Good luck and sweet dreams to my mom at the hotel with three kids for nap time.